1. If you find that your partner doesn't trust you, don't get irritated. Find out the reason for lack of trust; perhaps he has been betrayed by someone whom he loved or something happened during childhood.

2. You could set aside time with your partner to talk about this problem instead of letting you hound it all the time. He would probably appreciate the fact that you are trying to understand him. But be careful of the language that you use.

3. Walk into your workplace feeling good about it. Tell yourself that you are lucky to be there. You will notice that you do exceedingly well on the days you walk into the office with this feeling.

4. Don't let anyone undermine the importance of your job. Any job is worth it when you give it your heart and soul.